Testimony as Therapy: What Happens When You Finally Say It All Out Loud
There’s a specific kind of vertigo that hits the first time you say something out loud that you’ve only ever thought. Maybe you’ve replayed it a hundred times, rehearsed the exact wording, softened the edges, sharpened them again. And then one day, sitting across from a therapist, a friend, or a room full of strangers […]
The Theology of “It Was Meant for Evil, But…”, Finding Purpose Retroactively
There was no lesson, no silver lining, no grand plan you could see, just the free fall. And then, somewhere down the road, without you even trying to force it, the thing rearranges itself in your memory. It stops looking like ruin and starts looking like raw material. That flip, from “this destroyed me” to […]
